Another Silly Baby Blog: Back that Thang Up

Back that Thang Up

Hello ladies!! (Where have you been?!) ?Sometimes you have to disconnect in the name of reconnecting. ?While it could totally apply to me and this blog it doesn't...well it kind of does. ?Last week I decided to disconnect from my heavy usage of Facebook, Twitter, and my usual gossip sites- even Pinterest! ?It was time for me to reconnect with myself; you know the self I was pre-baby: a wife. ?It is so easy as a first time mom to become completely absorbed in your new little bundle that you forget to tender to both relationships. ?Sometimes you aren't up for the schmoozing that comes with rekindling your former goddess. ?Hell all that extra baby weight, those stretch marks, that extraness?about your body does nothing for your desire. ?But its important to remember that you are a whole new level of bad ass and you should put your extra self even higher on that goddess pedestal. ?
So now that I've convinced you to get your butt on the pedestal and reconnect, just how do you do it? ?Welp, I'm not a relationship expert so my lil tips might not work for you or be enough...but you're still reading so why not share?! ?First, get your self confidence together. ?Sure you got that extraness?going on but why not work those hips your baby gave you? ?Second, get the right gear.? Before baby you probably wore cute little pieces to highlight your assets and hide the trouble zones so why not do it now? ?Babydolls hide those tummies! ?Third, realize your hubby, boyfriend, boo, whatever will be so shocked by your enthusiasm that all of your worst fears will be for nothing! ?I can't imagine a guy turning down a chance to reconnect over stretch marks...and if they do, get a better companion. ?
? Now reconnecting doesn't have to be all about adult time. ?Put baby to bed and spend as little as 5 minutes holding each other, sharing one of your favorite pre-baby memories. ?Do something unexpected. ?Does hubs always take the trash out before bed?...take it out yourself! ?Leave a little note in his pocket for him to discover at work. ?Clearly you want to make sure it won't embarrass the two of you if another person were to see it should you choose to be more vulgar with yours. ?Does it sound like you're doing a lot of work and romancing here? ?Perhaps...but if your husband is like mine and has trouble shaking the guts and glory?birth of baby, it may be just what he needs. ?Let him know that the goddess is back and better than ever!

Source: http://anothersillybabyblog.blogspot.com/2012/09/back-that-thang-up.html

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